Wine And Dine And T-Time...
Last night... oh last night... lol. First, when you start the day by waking up at 6am to go wine tasting with the family, you never know how your night is going to end up! My sister picked me up around 8am and I was feeling myself. Had my low cut top on with my nipple pasties underneath in case of an accidental slip or in case the temperature got too cold. Keeping it classy. ;) I showered and was all fresh. Just feelin real cute. Ready to mingle. It's funny though when you show up at 8am ready for date night just to meet the fam. The fam consists of all married couples (or practically married). Between me and my step sisters there's 6 sisters total (only 5 of us were there for this) plus my step mom an everybody's significant others. It really is a good time.
I wanted to pace myself as I knew I had a hot date that night with Bro Country so me and my sister decided to split our tastings and then we quit drinking all together by the last stop. On the way home, those of us who didn't split tastings were feeling pretty toasty and there was some mooning of cars, passing of wine in the car, and lots of singing of Christmas carols. Too funny. I love my family very much. Next year, we've decided to get matching Christmas Onesies for wine tasting!
After a full day of wine tasting and driving long hours in the back country on windy roads I was not feeling so fresh. In fact, the minute I got home I blew up the toilet. lol. Like my stomach was NOT well. Nothing to make you feel sexy like quadruple wiping your ass before a hot date and no time for a shower! lol.
Bro Country was being super cute and accommodating though. Was texting me a little throughout the day asking me how the trip was going and making sure I knew he was flexible with whatever time I got in and that we could change plans accordingly. He even offered to pick me up for the date which was really sweet! But at date 2 I'm still interested in driving myself.
We ended up deciding on a mini golf course pub in SE. It was super cute! I loved the idea... But I was also SO tired! I literally laid in bed for 10 minutes with my dog contemplating keeping my eyes closed for the rest of the night. BUT, I don't like wasting peoples times and I hate it when people don't respect mine, so that last thing I was going to do was cancel.
When I walked into the pub, I saw a bro dude at the bar. I thought to myself... "bro country wasn't THAT bro-ey." But then he turned around and it was him. lol. whoops. He really is clean cut and put together and off first glance you would think is likely a d-bag. But he's still sweet as ever. Through our conversations I never found out if he likes Trump, but he did squeeze in that he was in a fraternity (not surprising at all lol).
Again, we had some great conversation. I love that he is passionate about his goals and seems to really have a good head and heart on his shoulders. And he was still very attractive. We had fun playing mini golf and chatting. And it really was a good time. At the end of the night he kissed me a little bit. And it wasn't bad. But.... and this is the big but... something just isn't quite there. The excitement. The spark? I dunno. He's a really great guy and I don't see any flaws in him... I'm just not sure if I'm into him. I don't get giddy wanting to text him. I don't feel a big flirtation between us. But if I had a friend that wanted to date him, I would definitely recommend him. He's just a solid dude. Seems open minded. I'm just not quite sure what is off there? My gutt says something's off though. Maybe it's age? Like, we're just not quite at the same place in life? Maybe it's just that he doesn't seem all that exciting. But he's really sweet and I'll give him that. Sometimes people are great, but just not the one.
Do you all think I should go out with him one more time for another chance at a spark? Or do I just listen to that little voice in my gut that says, "great guy, but not the one." ?
Dallas Brown is a pop country singer song-writer livin the dream!